Narcissistic personality disorder and dating
Avoid further interactions with your spouse or partner, and do not listen to what he or she is telling you about yourself. Prepare yourself for rage and brutal retaliation from your partner.
They will try to further undermine your confidence and cause you to question your decisions. Despite their own behavior, they will accuse you of using them, abusing, abandoning and financially taking them.
Obtain a credit card in your own name if you don’t already have one.
Open a separate bank account in your name and put emergency funds into it, in case your spouse or partner tries to stop you from accessing funds.
His sense of entitlement is boundless and you will be maligned and disparaged and anything, any crumb you get will be too much for you. If you are not on title of the house, make sure you do this.
Often the abuser who sees he is losing control will escalate the methods of control and abuse.
The lies will be bolder and he may manipulate with more intensity. Continued use of the legal system may now be available to him.
They are difficult to let go of, plus it also means coming to terms with the fact that the person you loved was not the person you thought he or she was.
Furthermore, it means admitting to the painful and humiliating things you endured during your relationship.